People have been really helpful with advice here, so Im going to ask for some more.
My boyfriend and I are getting into more BDSM play always a big turn-on for me. And during our play, I really enjoy being his total slave, at his mercy for pleasure or pain. But, it is still just play for us, and we dont want really bad pain or any kind of marks left on my body afterwards.
So, what would be good things for him to do and use on me we have already have nipple clamps--sexy ouch, LOL to achieve this? Maybe a paddle, a flogger, a crop? I dont know, but I would really like to hear from anyone with any ideas how to punish your slave without really hurting her too strongly. And. please, tell me as many as possible--they get me wet just thinking about
BTW, Id love to hear from women as well as men--I am dying for him to lend me out someday to a dominatrix--but thats another story